Influencer Cute Abiola has ignited a storm of backlash after sharing a graphic video of his wife’s childbirth surgery on YouTube, raising ethical questions about privacy and the monetisation of pain.

The hour-long video, which documents the couple’s emotional journey, has been widely criticised as an attempt to turn a deeply personal moment into public content.

In one of the most emotional moments on the surgery day, Cute Abiola is seen outside the theatre, visibly distressed as he offers prayers for his wife’s safety.

“So my wife is in the theatre already… I beg you God, please. I wish my wife safe delivery. I wish she comes out well. There should be no complications,” he said, his voice shaken.

He revealed that the procedure was his wife’s third surgery in four years, a disclosure that triggered fresh concern about the physical and emotional toll on her body.

Critics argue that the decision to record and publish the experience crossed a moral boundary, turning vulnerability into spectacle.

Enick said, “Sorry if this hurts, but we don’t care. We’re just strangers online faa, why do you feel the need to keep updating us about your life? It’s your family, man. We don’t need to know omo una gan sef.”

Tosin Olugbenga, wrote, “The level of shamelessness in this our generation is alarming. A life episode that should be a private moment forever. You set up cameras and recording throughout the entire episode. It’s very unfortunate.”

The video has also intensified debate over the health implications of repeated surgeries, with viewers questioning whether enough consideration was given to long-term risks.

While some defended the move as a testimony of faith and resilience, others warned that social media is increasingly rewarding the exposure of private struggles.

Otunba Kappachino said, “Your dey use your wife vulnerable moment as content. Make we still go watch as your wife born for YouTube. Nothing wey una no dey monetize.”

ThaBoyYom wrote, “Watch full video on youtube azin, you wan monetize her pain? So wait… after we watch and subscribe, you’ll have to lowkey wish her more agony so you can have more content?”

Concerns were also raised about the health implications of repeated surgeries.

Kunmi Bello advised caution, saying, “Congratulations… however please stop here, it’s not ideal to go through 1 CS, let alone 3 CS.”

In a more reflective take, Saliu Adekunle criticised the broader culture of oversharing.

“In Nigeria, it feels like everything must be monetised, even personal struggles… we need to bring back limits.”

Another user defended Cute Abiola, viewing the video as a testament to the couple’s strength.

Tate Michael commended the couple, saying, “Your wife is a strong woman… many pregnant women would be encouraged.”