TikTok star Elizabeth Amadou, widely known as Jarvis, has confirmed that her relationship with fellow influencer and livestreamer Hamzat Habeeb, popularly called Peller, is over — while warning the public to stop turning his pain into online entertainment following his recent car crash.
Jarvis disclosed a live video on Tuesday, as social media buzzed with reactions to Peller’s hospitalisation after crashing his car during a livestream on the Lekki-Epe Expressway in Lagos.
Reacting to the ridicule trailing both the accident and their breakup, Jarvis said the mockery was worsening an already emotional situation.
“It’s always people who will mock me. Because I can see concern about this online. People will mock him; stop mocking him. Stop shading him,” she said.
She insisted the crash should not be used to paint Peller as a bad person, stressing that she never portrayed him negatively.
Jarvis admitted that emotional instability, not wickedness, was at the heart of their challenges.
“Yes, he cannot control his emotions. He cannot control. That’s the problem. I can control mine, but he can’t control his. We need to join hands together to help him,” she said.
Confirming the breakup, she described it as painful but unavoidable, dismissing claims that she abandoned him.
“Peller is a sweet guy, I do not even want it to even end, but it has happened, it has happened,” she added.
She maintained that the focus should now be on healing, not rekindling the relationship.
“The relationship is not the thing now… The solution is to let’s put our heads together to work on him. To be better… This relationship thing. It is over for now,” she explained.
Jarvis pleaded with social media users to stop weaponising their pain for clout.
“Stop your shading. How is it helping? It’s not helping… Encourage him. Encourage us. Help us,” she said.
Visibly emotional, she said online reactions had deepened the trauma surrounding the incident.
She urged the public to be grateful that no life was lost.
“All you people should be saying is thank God for life… I love him, but for now we need to be okay,” she said.
Jarvis concluded that breakups are not always driven by hatred but sometimes by the need for peace and clarity.
Recall that Peller triggered an alarm on Sunday after crashing his car during an Instagram livestream titled “RIP Peller.”
In the footage, he appeared distraught, crying during a phone call believed to be with Jarvis amid breakup rumours.
He made disturbing statements such as, “I will use this car and have an accident right now,” and later, “I’m scared.”
At one point, he said, “If you break up with me, people will be mocking me… Thank you, I’m going to kill myself.”
Moments later, the car veered off the road and crashed into a stone barrier.
Subsequent clips showed bystanders rushing to his aid before he was taken to the hospital.